What are apps to make wm6.1 feel like wm6.5?

[superflysocal]

So I tried Wm6.5 and it is nice but i couldn't stand htc messaging and never could get it to disabled with nrg rom.

So i am back with wm6.1 but wanted some of the look of wm6.5.

For example, I like how pressing the soft menu brings up a menu on ANY program, but the menu is much bigger and finger friendly as well as scrollable. I could have sworn i have seen an app that does this before wm6.5 ever came out. Can anyone tell me what it is?