Can Receive but not SEND-Bluetooth

[chevyhighrider]

I am trying to send a file from my xv6700 to my Blackberry Tour 9630. I think I have finally connected properly (its not very obvious on the 6700) and have sent a video and picture from the blackberry to the 6700 but cannot send it from teh 6700 to the BB. I wanted to make sure they were paired and after sturggling with the 6700 I finally sent the request from the BB which then worked and I got a mesage saying they were paired(Could not get this going the other direction). BUT when I go to Beam it says "searching" on teh 6700 and even though paired with the BB it will not find any Bluetooth devices unless I put the BB in "Listen" mode. It still will not send then saying "failed" after a few sec Any ideas?