PPCGeeks - Problems/Questions RE: Flash, vid players, keyboard.

I have a few questions that I am unable to get answered and was hoping someone might be able to help or explain more.

alright, first off is there a way to make it so when you enter a text field, such as internet adress bar, the keyboard wont pop up on the screen, because I only use the slide out board.

Second, I downloaded a video, and tried playing it on my phone, but it does nothing. Its an FLV file from realplayer that was downloaded off youtube.

Third, Im still trying to find a way to download videos offline from sites, such as youtube and such. Just like how realplayer does it.

forth, is there a program, where you play instruments, like on the iphone, I saw it on a commercial where they were playing drums or something

Last, Is there a flash player that will actualy work. The thing is, I have installed the flash player 7, and when i goto a site, it still says i require flash.

I currently have the following installed regarding these issues:
WVD (web video download)
TCPMP
flash video bundle from here

Either I dont have the right junk or IM not doing something right.