HOWTO: Flash in Vista64
 

Ok after trying for hours I finally figured out how to do it.

1. Put your phone in boot loader mode.(hold volume down and power at the same time and press the reset button)
2. Disable USB connections in WMDC.
3. Connect your device and allow windows to install the driver. (you might have to get a windows update to get the latest driver this in important!!!)
The driver should be signed as "Microsoft Corporation" NOT "Microsoft"
4. Unplug the device.
5. Turn your device back on in regular mode. Then disable "advanced network functionality" in activesync. (this can be found in the USB-to-PC option under connections)
6. Plug the device back in while in regular mode.
7. Let the device connect and the Flash away!!!

Hope that this helps anyone else that is stuck in the same boat that I was.