How to change ICS front page, ex: app menu/phone/personalize
 

I like the ICS roms and themes with the 3.6 sense alot, but something i cant get over and it really bothers me is after i unlock the phone and go to the original main page the bottom screen menu looks weird and boxy...it doesnt look arked out and smooth like the sense 3.5, anyway to change it back while staying ICS?...Maybe this was answered before but i tried looking for it and prob dont know how to search for it. Any help would be more than appreciated, Thank you in advance.