In dind sight I am using Kirvins no junk for sprint and it seems like the 3.5 ROM's are able to play them

I had the 3.5 and they are great but I had to go back to factory because I wasn't able to see the picture mails, I guess I'll have to decide whats more important watching the picture messages or the videos ... I tried multiple, multiple 3.5 ROMs all of them are GREAT

OOOHH!! trouble with picture mail and 3.5 see i did'ent catch that. its not the player its the browser. you might try Opera 8.65 and see if that helps.

get it here

http://www.opera.com/