[billyman]

The OP has a valid concern. I HAD a (psycho) g/f that (before I knew she was psycho) I would include her in my MMS forwards. She actually would keep a list of all the numbers I sent these MMS messages to and even resorted to calling these numbers to see what my relationship was w/ each person.

Here's the deal; if you send an MMS to multiple people w/out having a BCC option, some carriers display all the recipients in the header. If they don't immediately display all the recipients all you have to do is open the MMS, select Menu, More and Reply all... the reply window will display all the recipients that MMS was originally sent to. Personally I don't like the idea that anyone can harvest this information. I would LOVE a BCC option for MMS w/ out having to use an email client.