I'm keeping this as a separate post since its a topic of itself. I've posted in the general forum about this...and hope that maybe Cal or some of you that might be more knowledgeable and more experienced can help sort this thing out...the gist is to get the native HTC messaging to play nice and send MMS without going thru arcsoft OR WM messaging client.
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=101286