Hotmail (Live)-New Rom not talking to my phone

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Ok, this is not a "push-mail isn't working" question, my email's are received instantenously on my phone- but if I read/delete them on my pc, it is not reflected on my phone unless I do a manual sync.

When I was on the previous Official rom (I believe that would be 2.16), whenever I did anyting on my pc, it would be reflected within a minute or so (even though the Notification would remain until it was cleared)

I upgraded to the new official rom (not the leaked) and I am now having the problem I described above. I also tried the Windows Live 10.6.33.0600 (Fixed) cab.

Does anyone have any ideas or perhaps the previous Windows Live Build? (I can NEVER get xda-developers to work...and I've tried on multiple computers).
Thanks!