setting to disable audio when a2dp is activated

[tri0xinn]

Well.. no luck in the software forum.. so thought some of yee might have an idea. Whenever I activate a2dp.. either through bt options or through a2dp toggle it automatically starts the audio app and starts playing my mp3's. Also when I turn off a2dp it restarts the audio program and starts playing mp3's again. There's gotta be a setting I'm missing somewhere.. also it does this to me on most roms.. at the moment I'm using groove'srom. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
thanks