Considering everyone on this site has managed to figure out how to unlock and then flash their phone without a video I suggest you read the stickies. I would read and do the instructions from this post. Click the underlined words. --->
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=43266
Also you will need to unlock your phone from this post and again click the underlined words --->
http://forum.ppcgeeks.com/showthread.php?t=42503.
Make sure you read the entire thing before doing it because you can kill your phone if you dont do it right, if you follow the instructions in the links I provided you will be fine. After you do both things then you can flash the incredible MightyROM and I suggest 4/R3born over 5 but thats your choice.
Thanks
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