Are they saying that you are using to much bandwidth?
or that your mysql databases are to large or what?
According to what that REALLY LIMITED email says,
your maxing out the server with how much data is
being pulled at one time, maybe not in general, but like
spikes of usage...
Similar to the digg effect...
There are some things you can do to fix that, but iv never worked on
vB or php or databases as large as this site has to be...
I do have really good technical skills and ALOT of knowledge...
so feel free to ask me anything if i can help...
Thanks for the awesome site...