[shark1987]

Ok, so no idea what I did differently but I finally got it working.

What I did:

1.) I deleted the partnership from both Mac and Phone.

2.) Then went into Activesync on the phone and hit connect via bluetooth. It said there wasn't a PC because there wasn't so I said yes I want to connect one.

3.) Then Activesync took me to the bluetooth settings on the phone and I setup everything the same way I was before.

So the only difference was me initiating a bluetooth sync in activesync before I actually had a partnership at all. Then taking the option from Activesync to setup the partnership.

Not sure why I had to do that but it's working fine now. What a stupid problem this was, that took me 3 days to figure out how to rig it to work correctly. At least it's working...