[thayer]

It seems like everything you have mentioned is on almost every rom...just disable sense and titanium. You end up with a very fast phone. Currently I am on the most recent release of NRG's rom, the "reference" edition with No cookies home tab. He includes a very nice start menu replacement program and also offers a titanium version so you aren't using any extra space to store sense in memory. But again, most roms are going to include what you've asked for.

Install MR3 (which upgrades the radio) then Task 29 (to format the internal memory) then flash away till you find a rom you like. I rarely last 15 days on one rom.

This phone has been fun, but it has always had software issues.