HOLY CRAP!!! You can actually brick one of these phones?
I must have flashed at least 13 or 14 ROMS so far in the last week or two. And I am still in the search for the perfect "for me" ROM. And I am afraid you are in for the same faith as I am. I have found two that come close, the one I have now is
Energy ROM and in 2nd place is the
SsS0201 ROM The Chef of the SsS ROM will be coming out with a new version soon. But as far as the best or the newest, that will be up to you to choose, because there will be a lot of opinions about that.